Getting Smacked Around

Have you ever reached a point in your life when you knew that you had to make a significant change and actually followed through? Whether it was an unfulfilling job or career-related issue, a toxic relationship or self-destructive behavior, I’ll bet that there was a single circumstance or moment of enlightenment that compelled you to take charge and change those circumstances. I call these moments “God Smacks.” 
Usually, a smack of enlightenment is good as it often leads to personal growth but a smack of physical misfortune can have severe and long-term consequences to you and your loved ones. So let me ask you, is there something that you’re neglecting to do when it comes to your mental or physical health? If so, I must ask why tempt a smack?
The average person knows of the benefits of exercise, physical activity, eating well, reducing stress…flossing…but fails to apply that knowledge consistently. Apparently, “knowing is not enough; we must apply [and] willing is not enough; we must do.” Thanks Johann!
But doing can be tough.
As of today, I want you to shift your focus to how you will feel as a result of the physical and mental health changes you’ve been neglecting to make. Try the following tactic that I use to help people redirect their focus:
Take a sheet of paper and make three columns. Write “Changes” in the first column, “Benefits” in the second column and “How it Will Make me Feel” in the third. Keep your list of changes short and start with the most pressing ones. Be as thorough as possible when completing the second and third columns.  Post or keep this list in a place where you can see it first thing in the morning, throughout your day and before you go to sleep. I have a friend who keeps mini versions of her lists on the dashboard of her car and on her refrigerator.  
Call it a day once you decide on the placement of your lists.
Starting tomorrow morning, review your list of changes as instructed above but focus most of your attention on the third column. Then, and this is very important, take another sheet of paper and label it Actions. Write down one action per each change you wish to make but leave room in between for details. Again, be as specific (and realistic) as possible when doing this part of the exercise.  Refer to your actions list often as a friendly reminder to help keep you on track.

This exercise works best when goals are clearly defined and when a support system is in place. Reach out to your family, co-workers, loved ones and friends for moral support.

Childhood Obesity: Causes

     When I was a kid, eating out was a treat.  My widowed mother worked hard to make ends meet.  We didn't have a great deal of disposable income and there was no such thing as an allowance but we splurged on dinner at the local McDonald's a few times a month.  She made dinner on most other nights and although her home-cooked meals were not always the healthiest, they were always balanced.  We were never hungry. 

     I had a hearty appetite and loved to eat as a child.  White bread, cheese, bacon, butter, fried foods, Doritos, Crunchies, ketchup and excessive amounts of sugar were every-day staples for me for quite some time.  My saving grace for not becoming overweight as a young child was lots of physical activity.  I took recess and gym while in school and rode my bike, played kick-ball or bounced on my pogo stick after school.  Admittedly, I watched too much television at night but it all seemed to balance out; at least until I hit my late teens.  Eventually, I became more sedentary and continued to eat too much of the wrong foods.  I put on weight and developed high cholesterol by the time I was in my late teens/early twenties.

     Most of our children are obese because they're eating too much of the wrong foods and are not getting enough exercise.  At the core of the matter are issues like accessibility, affordability and culture.  Kids have unprecedented access to fast food and junk food while the availability of healthier food options, whole foods, fruits and vegetables is limited, especially in low-income and urban neighborhoods. 

     Therefore, it comes as no surprise to me that low-income black and Hispanic children have higher rates of obesity than children of other ethnic groups. 

     Research done at the University of Washington a few years ago found that calorie for calorie, junk foods cost less than fruits and vegetables.  "If you have $3 to feed yourself, you are going to gravitate toward foods which give you the most calories per dollar…Not only are the empty calories cheaper, but healthy foods are becoming more and more expensive.  Vegetables and fruits are rapidly becoming luxury good," said Dr, Adam Drewnowski, lead research author. 

     I agree.  After all, Whole Foods (WFs) wasn't nicknamed "Whole Paycheck" for nothing. And it's not just WFs, organic fruit and vegetables, free-range and grass-fed meats, non-genetically modified foods, wild-caught fish, and foods free of high fructose corn syrup, antibiotics, growth hormones, artificial sweeteners and preservatives are more expensive where ever you can find them.

     Grassroots efforts like community gardens, farmers markets and food co-ops are a few great ways to make fruits and vegetables more accessible in communities with poor access (food deserts).  More important however, we must focus on family-centered education.  Kids are being exposed to information while in school but their parents and caregivers need a steady stream of information that is useful, realistic and relevant.  

    

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